To get rid of this problem, it is necessary to understand and remember the difference between two concepts: "Fear" and "Excitement"; For Adequate qualification, we recommend remembering: "Fear" is a direct threat to life. Such a situation requires concentration and calmness to save life, but you cannot give in to panic. Cold reason in such a situation - solves the problem more rationally. 'Excitement' is not Fear. It is an emotional feeling of apprehension of an undesirable result, and the outcome of events - possibly very significant, but not life-threatening. During excitement, focus on the thought, there is no threat - calmly look for a way out of the situation, and without any emotions choose an adequate solution. Prefer the best option - only Excitement, when life is safe - the influence of the instinct of self-preservation is switched off, freeing up most of the potential of Reason. This contributes to solving the "problem". And, we recommend remembering the "Postulates of Happiness":

1. It should be so;
2. This is the best option for the development of Events;

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